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Webcamming has become one of the fastest emerging and popular categories of the adult industry. "Virtual girlfriend + pornographic content" is the best way to define this industry. Camgirl, all of you must have come up with different or similar stuff in your mind. Some might be thinking of it as something good and some as bad, both as a model or viewer. Well, before talking about anything else, let's know what a girl exactly is. Camgirl is a performer who performs erotic and sensual acts online on webcam, sometimes with their own choice, sometimes on the demand of their viewers.

For me, a cam girl is like any other job or work people do for a livelihood. And suppose the question is about whether it's good or bad. In that case, it entirely depends on personal preferences and mentality and social acceptance according to the place you are living in. This is not acceptable in India, let alone India. It is not widely accepted in any part of the world. For the performers who can make a reasonable sum from this industry, who hardly met their ends earlier, it is no less than a blessing or an opportunity to grow in life. For the viewers who like to boss around in sexual acts and are demanding, it is the place of satisfaction. But as the saying goes, nothing comes with pros only; there are cons to the camming industry. I shall tell you about both bright and dark aspects and my experience to be more precise about this industry in each section.

How to Become a Cam Girl?

I learned a few things in this industry independently, which is not what this industry needs. Making unique, attractive, and alluring content is what helps you the most. For example, when you are just going live, and you are not in the private chat, you must do something interesting which makes you stand out from the whole crowd of cam girls on the website. Because if you are doing what everyone is doing, why will anyone come to your private chat room?

The second is being bold and confident - this is something I had to learn while providing cheap phonesex. Now from being bold, what I mean is not only stripping yourself naked. What I mean is even if you want to say no to your viewer, you must know how to say no. It doesn't work every time, but it works sometimes. This will help you in the concern of safety too.

What do you need to ensure before entering this industry?

Your limitations

Simply from your limitations, I mean what you can do and what you can't? Of course, there are limits in this category, and it changes from person to person. You should be clear about your boundaries and comfort zone and the flexibility of your comfort zone before entering this industry. It helps you in many ways in the future.

Your needs and expectations

As you enter this industry, you must think about what you expect from this industry. From the word expect, I mean everything regarding income, safety, privacy, simply everything. Considering this aspect is very important if you make it the primary source of your income and livelihood.

Do proper research

Last but not least, do proper research before choosing any company or website. Read their policies and terms and conditions carefully. And work with them only when you are satisfied with all the terms and conditions and policies.

There is a known end to this list. But you must decide all of this before entering this industry. And the most critical question you must ask yourself is whether this industry is good for you or not.

For me, limitations and comfort zones were not a big issue, but I have my comfort zone. When I decided to enter the sun registry, there were not many resources available for me to do research—the only way to get correct information or ideas. And for needs and expectations, I have already mentioned in this article that it was partly my need and partly my choice. And to be honest, I was looted by the sum of money this industry offered to the top models. But at that time, I was too innocent to understand that coming into the top model list is not that easy. Like any other industry, you need patience, constant hard work, and coming with great ideas every day.

How and why did I become a cam girl?

If I say I became one for money and because of financial issues. I will not be completely wrong, but this is only a part of the truth. Well, I don't like to play like an innocent and helpless girl and gain some sympathy here, who had no other choice. No offence to those who were helpless and entered this industry. But my reason was partly money requirements and partly my own choice. By being a cam girl, I can do lots of things which I like, but definitely, there are some which I don't, but it's okay. I don't like it doesn't mean I am not comfortable. And to be honest, I was always on the exposed side.

I like to wear revealing clothes. Not just some hot pants or cami. You can wear these when you are in some developed metro cities of India but not everywhere like villages and small towns. I like the feeling of someone looking at me, at my body, and getting aroused by my activities. Well, I know after reading this, some of the readers must have declared me as some characterless girl. Some must have an image of someone cool and bold. And some are okay. But I know it doesn't matter how broad-minded the people of the last two categories are, accepting their knowns or sister or girlfriend doing this is unacceptable.

Many of you must have got irritated after reading this, but I'm trying to be offensive. As per my story, like any other story, I got to know about this from a friend of mine. But I had read about it already. It was a challenging start for me too. In India, where sex before marriage is still unacceptable, being a cam girl is not easy. But I managed my way. I did not have many resources available when I started as a cam girl, but I don't want any other girl like me to do lots of web surfing and get nothing. So, I will try to make this article informative, and I will carry my story with all the information. Before jumping to any aspect of webcamming, let me tell you what a cam girl needs to do.

What do you need to do as a cam girl?

Firstly, you need to be an excellent performer to lure viewers to private chat. You will have the freedom to wear revealing and sexy clothes, play in fantasies, intimate activities, and even sex with a partner(s), and sometimes act according to your audience. Well, as long as the viewer is not in private chat, that viewer is not your priority at all unless his payment allures you. You might like doing some activities like showing your body, stripping naked, and playing with your body, but there can be some of the activities you are not comfortable with.

Sometimes, the viewers go overboard in demanding. Some can ask you to urinate or vomit or to see you in pain. As long as you are okay with the demands, go for it. And there is no doubt that everyone is not comfortable doing such things. For some, it's for fun, they enjoy, but for others, it's just a source of income. And generally, the problem of the comfort zone comes with those who do this for livelihood only. Try to be as flexible in your comfort zone as you can. Try to fulfil the demands of your viewers as long as you can. Because that's from where the payment comes from. But it doesn't mean anyone owns you there. They pay, but they don't. Being a cam girl doesn't mean disenfranchisement of any of your rights.

In my case, I sometimes like dominant viewers but not every time. I have had some terrible experiences with dominant viewers too. But now, I know how things work in this industry. From this part, you must have understood that sometimes it's just what you like to do, but sometimes it's what the audience desires to watch.

Can you make as much money as this industry promises?

Reading this section is essential for those who have joined or are thinking of joining this industry for financial stability. You might have seen promises and claims of $ 50,000 per month more. Yes, this is right, but only girls with experience of about 4-5 years know what their audience wants, who has quite a flexible comfort zone, and you have unique content to present. Other than your comfort zone and use of experience, your age also matters. Many prefer mature women, and many prefer young girls. It changes from person to person. But the most common liking is for young girls.

If you are a woman in your twenties and early thirties, you will be better than any woman elder for this age group. If you are a newcomer, you definitely shouldn't expect this much. The maximum to expect in the early days when the income is good is $ 200, but it will increase quickly with time and an increasingly loyal audience. Other than experience, another important aspect that determines your payment is how much time you are ready to give to your audience. It's not the end; the third and most important thing is what part of your income you receive. The website where you have a profile or the company you are working with or any management under whom you are working deducts 30% of your earned amount for maintenance and other facilities. But this differs from place to place.

Well, my first income was some $500 for the first month. There are times when the income is too low to meet ends for a month, and there are times when it's enough to save for the long run. So, it is quite a flexible sector. It ultimately depends on your performance and sometimes your luck.

Pros & cons of this industry

As I have already said earlier in this article, you can choose what to do, but sometimes you need to fulfil your audience's demands and loyal viewers. Ofcourse, it's up to you if you want to do it or not. But we can't deny that you don't have a choice even if you are given a choice. If you don't do what the audience wants, why will they pay? So, in the camming industry, use your right of choice wisely. The same rules apply to the level of privacy you are getting. You can choose to hide your face behind some mask, but the viewer can demand to unveil your face. And what can be accepted or declined is left to your choice entirely only by some management. Some try to control you in this aspect too. Some will say a direct no to rejection, which means you can't reject any viewer's demands. So, you must not hurry in choosing the company you are choosing. On websites, you can enjoy more liberty, no doubt.

It provides privacy to some extent; you can choose not to show your face; this also comes in privacy. But you never know if you also visit the same website. And as I have already said, whether it's good or bad is personal thinking of the person and society's circumstances. But generally, it is considered as something dirty and wrong. And especially when a relative is known for doing this. You rarely find such a broad-minded person who will not spread a single word about you, even after watching at "such a place," which is definitely "such a place for them."

As long as safety is concerned, it can't be claimed 100%. No one is safe anywhere or in any field. Stalking and following can happen with anyone. But if we are talking about all the pros and cons, we can't overlook this one. It doesn't happen with everyone but can occur with anyone, no doubt. Many top websites and companies provide excellent safety and privacy policies, but nothing can be entirely trusted in such sensitive cases. Other than this, blackmailing is something that I will like to include in this section. But in reality, it is the combination of many sections. Of course, it is done by someone who knows you or your family, and 99.99% of families won't accept this job. So, you must know you can meet any psychopath or average stalker at any phase of this occupation or any other occupation. Stating that this is the con of this industry only will be wrong.

Conclusion

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Streaming as a cam girl is a part of a bigger industry where people who have the resolve tend to do very well, it provides the girls, from an unstable financial background, a stable standing in the society. These women have total control over themselves and are not subjected to anyone they decide what happens not the audience because they are in control of the streaming. However, in case of Pakistan, a woman might not be able to find the resolve to work as a cam girl but those who are overwhelmed in the face of their basic rights and had the resolve are working as a cam girl because it provides them security and their basic rights as they earn enough to get by. Some, on the demand of their audience may perform some requested tasks for a tip and whether or not they do the mentioned task is entirely up to them.